“In my time of dying, want nobody to mourn. All I want for you to do is take my body home.” – Led Zeppelin. 

LAKE COUNTY, Calif. — Raymond Phillips, 63, of Nice, died peacefully from cancer at the end of September 2025, while holding the hands of his daughters Kehaulani and Maheanani. 

With family, friends, and a guitar always nearby, Ray lived life full of love and music. Though music was his first love, his greatest love was for his wife Pamela. Their marriage was beautiful, their bond unshakable, and though she passed six years ago, he carried her memory with him in every step, honoring their love song daily. 

Family was at the core of everything he did. He took the most pride in being a father, granddad, brother, and friend. His grandchildren, his beloved “nuggets,” were his shining stars, each one treasured beyond measure. Whether strumming a guitar, telling a story, spouting out random facts and movie quotes, or simply being present, he poured endless love and laughter into their lives.

Ray leaves behind his daughters, Kehaulani and Maheanani; stepchildren, Misty and Danny; son-in-laws, Anthony, Lou, and James; grandchildren, Kyle, Geno, Makehla, Donavan, Gabriella, Marley, Julian, Pammie, Olive, Corbin, Ryan, and Noah; great-grandchildren, Geno, Han, and Effie (on the way); siblings, Jed, Jimmie, Carol, Nancy, and Meegan. He is predeceased by his wife, Pamela; sister, Patricia; and son-in-law, Joshua. 

Ray’s legacy is one of music, love and laughter. The notes of his life may have faded, but the song remains steady, vibrant and unforgettable.

Arrangements by Chapel of the Lakes Mortuary, 707-263-0357 or 707-994-5611, or visit www.chapelofthelakes.com.