Rufino ‘Ray’ Pato

By Elizabeth Larson | Feb. 10, 2026
Ray Pato. Courtesy photo.

LAKE COUNTY, Calif. – Ray Pato, a beloved husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather, was called home to heaven on Nov. 22, 2025, at the age of 85. 

He passed peacefully, surrounded by the love of his family: his devoted wife, Fran, and his children, Rufino and Anita.

Ray's life was defined by kindness, patience and joy. He never raised his voice nor lost his temper, and his steady support and pride in his family were constants throughout his life. 

He had a deep affection for animals of every kind and found happiness in simple pleasures – boating, fishing and never passing up the chance to dance. 

For most of their married life, Ray and Fran worked side by side, successfully running their janitorial business with dedication and importance.

Ray and Fran shared nearly 61 years of marriage, a testament to their enduring devotion and love. Together, they built a family rooted in warmth, generosity and care.

Ray leaves behind his wife, Fran; his children, Rufino and Anita; two cherished granddaughters, Christina and Nicole; and five adored great-grandchildren, Justin, Jace, Amelia, Olivia and Hudson, each of whom carries forward his legacy of love.

Though his passing leaves an empty space in the hearts of those who loved him, Ray's spirit continues to guide them. His life reminds us to hold our loved ones close, to say "I love you" often, to give generously to our communities, and to strive always to be good human beings.

A private celebration of life was held with immediate family to honor Ray, who blessed those around him with love, laughter and cherished memories every single day.

Arrangements by Chapel of the Lakes Mortuary, 707-263-0357 or 707-994-5611, or visit www.chapelofthelakes.com