- Michelle Scully
Aponte raises awareness of breast cancer survivors
LAKEPORT, Calif. – On the night of Friday, Nov. 2, the atmosphere at Color Organix on South Main Street was expectant as a small crowd gathered to join together with Regina Aponte as she sat down in the stylist’s chair.
Generally when a woman sits down in a salon her expectation is to have her hair cut and styled. Aponte’s was to have all of her hair shaved as an act of love and support for a young friend battling breast cancer.
Her gesture came from a place of love, as she had decided to shave her head as a gesture of solidarity with Rachel Mitchell, a young mother who had been diagnosed with an aggressive form of Stage II breast cancer in her 24th year and while she was 14 weeks pregnant.
Aponte’s friendship with the family has been longstanding and her heart ached with all the struggles the young family is dealing with. Mitchell also has recently been diagnosed with Bell’s palsy as well. Bell’s palsy is a form of temporary facial paralysis resulting from damage or trauma to the facial nerves. It generally affects only one side of the face, but may in rare cases affect both sides.
“The atmosphere was magical,” said Aponte. “A mixture of almost holy purpose, joy and a bit of trepidation. Everyone was so completely supportive, from the youngest grandchild or student, to the oldest and of course, wisest! We were blessed at every turn.”
Color Organix was filled with family, friends, supporters and a lot of kids, most of them students from Konocti Christian Academy (KCA) and grandchildren. Clear Lake High School junior Ryan Call, whose mother Kerri is also a teacher at KCA also joined in and had his shaved to add his support to Aponte and Mitchell.
After shaving Aponte’s head, Marin Alexander, owner of Color Organix, and Aponte prepared the hair to be donated to Locks of Love. Locks of Love is a nonprofit organization that provides hairpieces to financially disadvantaged children suffering from long-term medical hair loss.
“In bringing the needs of Rachel Mitchell to the forefront, my desire is to highlight the need for pregnant women to pay attention to their changing bodies during pregnancy, with the knowledge that being pregnant doesn’t exempt them from breast cancer,” said Aponte. “My desire is to raise as much money for this young family as possible. My original goal was $10,000 because that was the amount of their financial need due to medical bills and bills associated with the treatment. That is a high goal but we are just grateful for any and all donations that can help the family during her ongoing medical needs and surgeries.
Rachel Mitchell just had her ovaries removed last Wednesday morning as part of the ongoing medical treatment program designed to reduce any further risk of cancer.
The response has humbled and awed the Aponte and Mitchell families. The students at KCA where Aponte is a teaching assistant have taken this family to heart and have collected money for the family and continue to do so.
Donations continue daily from students who told Aponte that they don’t want any attention drawn to their contributions, because they don’t want anyone to feel badly if they are unable to donate.
First grader Noah Schlange is collecting donations for the Mitchells and will be shaving his little head soon as well.
“I can hardly believe the children and their precious, precious hearts! I am humbled by the responses,” Aponte said.
If anyone would like to join, taking a stand against breast cancer, and help this young family with their medical expenses, please call Aponte at 707-972-0980.
More information, and an opportunity to donate to the financial needs of Rachel Mitchell and her family, visit www.iwillshavemyhead.com/ .